TGIF! The week was really good but I just could not shake off a sense of overwhelm. And that was not due to lack of preparation on our part!! T and I worked as a team to communicate with schools, get aftercare, get groceries, cook, clean, make lunches, etc. I was also prepared at work: lessons, handouts, on top of email, etc.

And yet I felt like my brain was going in five different directions. Kindergarten drop off was a s**t show since it was really disorganized. Pick up was just as bad. Thankfully T is at home this week so it was less stress. Guess what? Next week he is away for the whole week.

New schools! L to kindergarten! R- to preschool! Same school district, two different schools.

First day of kindergarten ❤️
Little man is not in the mood 🤣❤️

When I asked kids how their first day went… L: “we read and wrote all day”. sounds good to me. R: “so and so wasn’t sharing, so I smacked them, they smacked me back, and then we sat and cried together.” 😂

The biggest thing I think I may be overwhelmed about are the new schools. Routines are pretty set. Morning: up, get dressed (both schools use uniforms), kasha for breakfast, butt in seat, drop off. Evening: pickup, snack, play, quality time, showers, pajamas, teeth, books and songs. Light out at 7:30 the latest.

I am babbling and trying to make myself feel better. This weekend I need to do something to help me crawl out of overwhelm. So I’m just gonna go read my book and leave with this picture full of love.

I can’t even ❤️

21 responses to “Overwhelmed”

  1. Coco Avatar

    yes! do not overthink it too much. this is temporary, it will get better faster than you think now. just do whatever feels good now. I remind me of this every time I feel I’m in the middle of chaos.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      A good point, chaos-that’s where I am right now.

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  2. Noemi Avatar

    Girl, I just gotta say I feel you, but you already know I do. I think the start of the school year is just tough. I have also done a ton of “prep” both at home and school and still feel like I’m being pulled in a million directions. I’m telling myself things will settle into a rhythm and if that rhythm feels too frenetic I can try to adjust. YOU GOT THIS!!!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      As a fellow educator I know you are feeling what I’m feeling 🙂 Hugs!

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  3. Elisabeth Avatar
    Elisabeth

    All the routines are SO overwhelming. Love that picture of you with L. Gorgeous.
    And then “we both cried together” – I definitely laughed at that. Preschool can be tough…

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      And now they are so much closer! LOL Sending hugs and hope your blog recovery is going well!

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  4. J Avatar

    Oh, the part about crying together made me smile! So sweet. I also love that picture of you and your daughter.

    Here’s hoping things settle down soon and you won’t feel so overwhelmed.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      THANK you so much. I need the vibes right now 🙂

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  5. San Avatar

    OMG, look at L’s cute kitty shoes (love the whole picture of her smiling). I hope you settle into a routine soon…

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  7. Birchwood Pie Avatar
    Birchwood Pie

    Well first of all, I love your daughter’s cat shoes. And second of all…oh kids.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Haha exactly!!!! Thank you for stopping by :))

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  8. Lisa of Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I am sending you hugs! I am so behind on blogs after a very busy week at work so am just catching up. I can completely relate to the meltdown R had yesterday. Paul was actually the harder kid of the 2 but he is the one adjusting to a new school. Taco is on week 3, I think? So is settling in sort of.

    I hope this week of solo parenting is going ok. If I was local I would come over and lend a hand!! Hugs!!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Aww thank you!!

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  9. Irena Avatar
    Irena

    I would suggest to focus on what is more important, and kind of drop the ball in the other areas. Maybe cook easier weekly meals, or make them cooperate in the mornings by using sprinkles on their kasha (my grandma used to do it :)), or let them play longer in the PM (so you can do a set of laundry or clean up), and shorten the quality time to just reading one book, etc. Think about your priorities and plan accordingly :))

    Laura Vanderkam would have also suggested to take one night a week for yourself. I personally made it work with about one night a MONTH (once a week was not doable). In my night-away-from-home I sometimes go to meet up with a local Travel group, but other time just go to Barnes & Nobles and read quietly to recharge. You got this! Everything gets easier with practice 🙂

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Ohhh thank you so much for that! Sprinkles on kasha is a great idea!! And I shortened the books to two books. When T is around we can read up to 10 books. I mean the children’s books are also short… the letting them play longer works really well, been doing that.
      After this week when T comes back on Friday morning, I think I’m gonna get away for a while lol

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  10. NGS Avatar
    NGS

    That is the best first day of school photo I’ve ever seen. Poor R. This too shall pass for all of you!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Many people when they saw his picture laughed out loud and where like “I can relate to that!” 🤣🤣

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  11. Stephany Avatar

    I love the realness of R’s first day of school picture. ISN’T THAT THE TRUTH. He feels the way we all feel when starting something new.

    Once again, your daughter is KILLING IT with the fashion game. Now I want those cat ballet shoes! How cute are they?!

    I hope the overwhelm improves – starting new routines is always so tough!

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