From Córdoba we drove to Zafra. Why did we decide to go to Zafra after seeing all the wonders of the three “grand dames”: Seville, Granada and Córdoba? Well, the airplane tickets were for Monday and we stayed in Cordoba till Friday morning. Plus, I needed to be closer to Lisbon for our flight out. Anyway, Zafra was delightful but I pretty much ran out of steam by then.

Zafra is a small town not far from Badajoz, Extremadura. It’s often referred to as “little Seville.” We technically only stayed there for a full day and a half and that was enough time. The highlight was where we stayed. We slept in a parador nacional! That was another one of my non-negotiable things to do- to stay at a parador, at least for one night.

In 1928 Spanish government started the initiative to convert historic places such as castles, convents, and monasteries into hotels or paradores. So, the parador of Zafra is essentially a castle where people can stay.

Historic, beautifully decorated. Expensive. Our room was small and I barely slept since I had to share a bed with R one night and L the second night. The view was amazing. Every morning, R would go out on the balcony, in his underpants, and wave to whoever was out (not many people) in the square “wuenos dias!” So stinking cute.

So, how I can cross off a life goal of my list “stay at a castle”- done! In Zafra we didn’t do much but we did roam around, visited a convent, a museum, of course, cafés, and spent time at the pool. The pool had castle watch towers in the background. Mind-blowing!

On Sunday morning, we drove to Lisbon from Zafra and it took us about 3 hours.

The last picture in the collage above in the Vasco da Gama bridge which is over 7 km long! When we were starting our adventure, we crossed this bridge, and this time we crossed it when we were finishing our trip. As we were driving over it, I felt a pang of sadness.

Sadness that our trip was over. Sadness over the fact that when the school year starts I will yearn for our lazy, slow walks on the narrow streets of Cordoba, playing in the gardens and streams of La Alhambra, and leisurely siping many cafés con leche in small squares. Sadness because I do not know if we will ever return. I still have weeks before returning to work so it’s not like I am plunging into work head first, but I feel sad nonetheless. I also felt grateful. Grateful for the ability to give myself and the family this opportunity to live and travel in a foreign country. Grateful for the fact that, in spite of difficulties, nobody got sick on this trip. Grateful to the Universe for putting all the right people in our way, to help us out one way of the other (such as an old lady who “directed” us when our car got stuck in a narrow corner of Cordoba and couldn’t make a key turn). Grateful to have a house and community to come back to.

In Lisbon, we checked into an outdated and shabby Radisson Blu right next to the airport. I was going to bring them into Lisbon old down but I really just did NOT have any more energy, I was feeling homesick and wiped out. I just wanted to return the car and board the plane to Newark. But I did not want to sit in the hotel room from 3PM till bed time and the hotel had no pool. Luckily, there was a lovely park right next door to our hotel.

After spending about two hours roaming around the park, the kids begged for MacDonald’s (LOL) and we got it. Next morning, at 5AM we were up. Packed up and had a generous breakfast at the hotel. Returned the car at 7am, boarded our United flight and 8 hours later we got off at humid New Jersey. And it felt so good to be home.


13 responses to “Zafra I Lisbon I Concluding Thoughts”

  1. Diane Avatar

    I’ve so enjoyed reading about your adventures! How inspiring to hear how you’ve managed everything *with the kids* in tow, and made a memorable time for everyone.

    I once saw a video by Daniel Pink who says there are five things he always does in a foreign city and eating at McDonald’s is one of them, so I’m glad you got to check that off your list!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Not without difficulties for sure. But I am proud of myself for relatively holding it together 🙂 Thank you for your kind words!

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  2. Lisa of Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I am glad that you had such a great trip that you felt a sense of sadness at the end. I think I am programmed much differently than you when it comes to travel with kids. Like a 3 hour drive with my kids to my parents on my own for the 4th of July was so very difficult and we were in a major freeway with no traffic for most of the ride. Or maybe my kids are hearty enough? I think we are quite a ways away from wanting to take them to Europe!! Like 5-8 years probably! But you seemed to handle this well and your kids must be good travelers and be really flexible!!

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      Daria

      There were moments where I exploded but oh well, that’s in the past. Hopefully they will not remember… 😉

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  3. San Avatar

    You made memories for a life time. And yes, I can relate to the feelings of sadness, but also gratitude after a meaningful vacation!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Precious memories. I know that bad moments will probably fade away and positive ones will stand out over time 🙂

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  4. Stephany Avatar

    Congrats on surviving this vacation with two very young kids! I don’t blame you for being exhausted – this would have probably been a lot to handle if you had your husband with you, even more so to do it alone!

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      Daria

      Thank you for your kind words! There were times that were so hard… and there were times that were amazing.

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  5. melissagstebbins Avatar
    melissagstebbins

    I’ve loved seeing your photos and hearing all about your trip. I would like to see this part of the world some day.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      So, so beautiful.

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  6. Grateful Kae Avatar

    Hi Daria! I just wanted to jump in here to say that I followed along every post about your trip but was very busy the last few weeks and was mostly just reading on my phone! So, I don’t think I left any comments. This looks like an ADVENTURE! My husband and I did a big Spain/ Italy trip in 2018 and we visited Madrid, Cordoba, Seville and Barcelona on that trip. I have the exact same photo you have from Cordoba of the alley with the flowers and the blue buckets! That made me smile. You are so brave to do this all alone… I feel like even with my boys as teens now I would not be brave enough/ comfortable enough to go all around alone, much less rent a car and drive and PARK in those little towns. Good for you for going for it!! I am a bit envious of your extremely adventurous spirit! Glad you had a great trip. 🙂

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Hey Kae! Yes, the little flower street with la mezquita peeking out. I am motivated by your time blocking and exercise. Will be sure to follow along; have a great rest of this summer! And, rest up! I will, too hehe

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