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Dad had a stroke

Not good news… My dad, who lives in Russia, and the one and only link I have to Russia, had a stroke.

His left side is not functioning.

Good news. Andrei, his grandson, my brother’s youngest son, my nephew, has gotten in touch with me.

I am in a limbo. The logistics of traveling to Russia right now is… burdensome, to say the least. Taking off work at the end of the year as a teacher is… hard.

Andrei (my nephew) has an appointment with his attending doctor tomorrow. I may need to go to Russia for a while to take care of him. If it’s longer than a week, I will be bringing the kids since I cannot be away from them for longer than a week.

Please send whatever you can: light, energy, prayers, words, anything…

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Mother, teacher, partner, friend. I love coffee, books, and travel with and without kids. I dislike exercise. Nothing glamorous here but do have moments of insight.

17 responses to “Dad had a stroke”

  1. J Avatar
    J

    Oh Daria, this is so hard, I’m so sorry. Sending you strength and light to figure out what is best to do, and healing thoughts for your dad.

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  2. Sak Avatar
    Sak

    That’s so hard to deal with your dad having a stroke and navigating information and care from so far away. Sending you thoughts and prayers as you deal with this. I’m glad your nephew is able to keep you updated.

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  3. Michelle G. Avatar
    Michelle G.

    Oh, Daria. My heart is breaking for you. Sending you a big virtual hug and all my best wishes.

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  4. Lisa’s Yarns Avatar
    Lisa’s Yarns

    Im so sorry you are dealing with this from afar. I hope his condition stabilizes so you can wait until school is out to go see him. Sending you lots of love and light.

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  5. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    I’m so sorry to hear this Daria. Praying for you and your family.

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  6. Diane Avatar
    Diane

    Oh Daria – I’m so sorry to hear about your father – what a hard hard thing it is to be so far away. Thank you for sharing here. Wishing you all the strength and courage you need to get through this.

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  7. Natka Avatar
    Natka

    I am so sorry to hear about your father. Sending love and positive thoughts your way.

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    Whatever the next steps are – I know you will figure it out. Travelling to Russia is complicated, but doable. I am so glad to hear your nephew is taking care of things right now and is staying in touch with you.

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  8. Maya Avatar
    Maya

    I’m so sorry to hear this news, Daria. I think it’s what we always fear when we’re so far away, and I’m sorry it has come to pass. I hope the doctor is able to offer hopeful advice and that your dad is on his way to healing soon.

    Sending love and light ❤

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  9. Sophie Avatar
    Sophie

    Oh Daria, I’m so sorry to hear this. Such a difficult development, both emotionally and logistically. Hoping your dad’s condition improves soon. Thinking of you and sending you love, and strength my friend ❤️

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  10. Nicole MacPherson Avatar
    Nicole MacPherson

    Oh Daria, I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you. xo

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  11. Elisabeth Avatar
    Elisabeth

    I’m so sorry, my friend. Wish I could stop by and give you a giant hug. Sending prayers for your dad’s healing and for you as you face this challenging situations.

    ❤

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  12. Stephany Avatar
    Stephany

    I’m so sorry, Daria. That’s so tough. You’re in my thoughts and I hope his condition improves quickly!

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  13. Noemi Avatar
    Noemi

    I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. I know how hard and stressful it is to have to leave at the end of the school year. Especially if you won’t be back for a while. I hope the appointment with the doctor provides the best possible news and that you feel you have the space to make the right decision. Sending love and light.

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  14. Writer McWriterson Avatar
    Writer McWriterson

    Sending love and light your way. Thinking of you and your dad this morning. Keep us posted when you can. 💜

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  15. K @ TS Avatar
    K @ TS

    Ug, I am so sorry Daria. I am sending good thoughts your way and his, and I hope that he improves!

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  16. Tobia | craftaliciousme Avatar
    Tobia | craftaliciousme

    Oh Daria. This is so sad and hard.
    I am hoping by now five days later you have some clarity and your dad is on the mend.
    I can only assume the burden traveling to Russia right now would entail and specially if it is for some longer time.

    Sending strength and good vibes your way.

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  17. San Avatar
    San

    Daria, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I know this comment is late, I am catching up after my own travels overseas… and I am hoping desperately to see some good news as I catch up on your blog! Thinking of you. I know this is one of the most stressful situations for someone who lives abroad.

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