January was a bit blah of a month weather-wise, with tons of fog, rain, and very few days of sun. It also felt long, punctuated by family illnesses at the beginning of the month, seemingly endless tasks and to-dos, and just low energy all around. Various shades of grey are below.

It wasn’t my goal but I kind of fell into “refresh” mode in January. I gave up on the January challenge from the Apartment Therapy after they asked me to create a vision board. Instead, I started buying. I refreshed my tops, under clothing and bras, bathrobe, bed sheets and duvets, and bought new curtains for our hallway window. I also decluttered. Fair warning: this post is mainly about what I bought so if that’s not your thing, then skip it. I don’t enjoy spending money but this time it felt kind of good. What is happening to me??

Wardrobe refresh: tops. I am okay in the bottoms department since I refreshed that back in September after school started. But tops needed some work. My two sweaters where pilling so it was time to let them go. I also saw that while I have three Ce-Ce blouses, they are all short-sleeve. I don’t have many long-sleeve shirts that are not plaid shirts or very casual shirts. After reading up on Paris fashion I became a bit self-conscious in regards to not looking entirely like a tourist. The Internets suggested bringing subdued colors, wearing a belt and a scarf, and using sensible shoes but not necessarily sneakers. Also, no leggings or yoga pants.

I had a gift card to Nordstrom, my clothing store of choice, and I went on a bit of a binge with seven tops. Some light, some on a heavier side, but all are good for layering. I will not be bringing them all to Paris but I am happy to add more variety to my wardrobe. Interestingly, all tops have some kind of a unique feature that attracted me to purchasing them: interesting collars, buttons, or a pattern.

House refresh: bed linens. On a cold night, my husband took out a huge and very warm duvet that we have and only use on very cold nights. I honestly don’t like sleeping under it, because, night sweats. Regardless, I saw that the duvet cover was old and pilling: time for it to go. A quick search on Macy’s website showed two duvet cover and pillow sets in grayish-blue so I purchased them. Then I moved onto bed sheets. Ours were not old per se but we had them for a while, so I decluttered those.

Lastly, inspired by Diane (Hey Diane 🙂 and how she wants to order window treatments, I looked at our hallway window and said “those 2007 curtains have to go.” So, new curtains from Macy’s for one window. T caught the refresh bug and ordered new pots and pans. Ours were from 2012, a wedding present from one of our friends. Why stop now? Amazon: new dish rags for kitchen since ours were quite ratty.

Looking back… In January I was seeking comfort in everything but, especially, food. I made warm, hearty dishes and over-shopped on groceries. The complete opposite of what normal people do: restrict calories and budgets.


22 responses to “January “Refresh” + Life Comforts”

  1. Tina Avatar

    Sometimes you just have to be selfish and think about yourself and what you want or need right now. I find trying to keep up with my lists and goals can be slightly stressful sometimes, and following guidelines someone else has advised, yeah, that’s even worse.

    I don’t see that you’ve done anything wrong. I bet it makes you feel better having refreshed a few new things.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      I surely did make me feel better! And- thank you for validating my feelings- hugs!

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  2. San Avatar

    We did some “refreshing” too in January. All of a sudden (or maybe not so all of a sudden) there were things that needed replacing (pillows, bedsheets, salad bowl, wallet…). Sometimes it feels good to get these things taken care of! 😉

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Glad to hear I wasn’t the only one… Speaking of pillows…

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  3. Coco Avatar

    I love the last pic, groceries shot. I’m always curious what others buy regularly. January must be cold there so a lot of soup, stew, hot beverages must be nice.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Me, too! When I see lots of greens in other people’s carts, it makes me question my choices. I was craving comfort food, so I got pieroghies.

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  4. Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I didn’t do much from the January cure either. It had changed since I last did it. But it did inspire me to clean out several drawers, deep clean our kitchen and deep clean our fridge so it wasn’t a total loss!

    I love the tops you picked out! My sweaters are all so so old so I could use a refresh in that department, too.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Nice!! I need to deep clean the kitchen, too. The sideboards… The refrigerator…

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  5. Nicole MacPherson Avatar

    Oooh cute tops! I like it! That ice cream cone is MINI!!!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      I took it out and 😳 so small 🤣

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  6. NGS Avatar
    NGS

    I don’t even know what to wear when it’s chilly if it’s not a dress/tunic and leggings. I would be very identifiable as an American in Paris, I guess.

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  7. Elisabeth Avatar

    That is the smallest ice cream I’ve ever seen.

    January is…not my favourite month. But you’ve done so much refreshing in January, that you can enter February with a lovely clean slate and fresh enthusiasm. I LOVE tops with a little quirk or pattern.

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  8. Stephany Avatar

    Sometimes you just have to go on a replacing spree! I understand that feeling. You can only deal with everything for so long when you just NEED to replace the things.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Ha! Thank you for the validation Stephany!! xoxox

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  9. Diane Avatar
    Diane

    OMG – we *still* need curtains in our living room. I have not moved an inch on that project. The thing is, I think I would be fine with our mis matched curtains forever, but it really bothers my Husband. So it’s on the list for 2024.
    The shirt with the bow is so cute!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      I think I may have that in common with your husband- once I’m in my head about something, it’s hard to get out lol

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  10. Sarah Avatar

    I love how you just leaned into it– happy refreshing month 🙂

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Ahhh thank you!

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  11. Michelle G. Avatar
    Michelle G.

    It’s so fun to refresh things! I love your clothes, especially the top with the buttons on the shoulder. So cute! I refreshed my kitchen towels and I’m so happy with them! I hung onto the old ones for way too long.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Little things in life, right?…

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  12. J Avatar

    Nicely done! It looks like you got some great items. We recently bought a new duvet cover, which is fine but I liked our old one better. Too bad it was beyond repair. Our other spend recently which was not as much fun as clothes or house decor or even groceries was a plumber who had to come out because our toilet was making very strange noises. Next we have to take one of the cars in to the shop, it is due for a bunch of work. Expensive, but cheaper than a new car! A new car would be fun, but I like not having a car payment.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Oh not having a car payment is great, isn’t it?!! That is why I am keeping my little Subaru until I completely run it into the ground. It’s paid off and it better last me a long time 🙂

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