18 days 🙂

Our trip is coming up and some readers had questions.

When did you buy the tickets, book airbnbs and car rental? I remember I booked everything within a week for fear of not securing good places or being a risk of receiving a manual transmission car. Mid November we bought the tickets, and once those were in place, we booked the airbnbs, paradores, and reserved our car.

Is T with you for the whole 18 days? No. My husband does not have the luxury of having summers off like me ;P so he will be there for the first seven days then will have to fly back to the US. We will continue without him and stay the whole length.

Why not just go back home with T? Initially, I was meeting a good friend with her daughter in Spain. But her plans changed so I will do the trip alone with the kids. I don’t want to go through canceling, changing, and possibly loosing money on cancellations/refund fees, etc. My friend and I will see each other in Poland, in August, sans kids.

What’s the itinerary like? Because we are traveling with a 3- and a 5-year old, we will not be moving around a lot. Rather, we have “bases” from where we can explore and take day trips. Our “bases” are:

  1. Armaçao de Pera (Portugal) 3 nights
  2. Sevilla (Spain) 4 nights
  3. Granada (Spain) 4 nights
  4. Córdoba (Spain) 4 nights
  5. Zafra (Spain) 2 nights
  6. Lisbon (airport hotel) – 1 night, leaving in the morning.

What specific things will you see? A few biggies and non-negotiables: Algarve coast, la plaza de España in Sevilla, Triana neighborhood in Sevilla, mozque-cathedral in Córdoba, and la Alhambra in Granada. Also, Zafra village.

Apart from that we will go with the flow. For example, I just saw on Google maps that there is a zoo next to Lagos, Portugal. So I added it to the “list.” If we get there – great, if not-no biggie. We will avoid touristy locations such as Málaga, Marbella, Estepona, and Fuengirola.

What about the kids? This trip is for us, and the kids are simply tagging along. We believe that the kids will enjoy what we enjoy. If they hate La Alhambra or care less about la mezquita de Córdoba, it honestly does not bother me.

I have no idea whether there will be any kid-friendly activities such as themed-parks or playgrounds. We don’t have anything booked of specific kid-nature. We will mainly do beaches, nature reserves, villages, plazas, and cafés. One, maybe two activities per day, tops.

What about food? I am sure we will eat out maybe once a day. But we will also hit local shops, and, thanks to kitchenettes, will make food at our bases.

Are you scared to be traveling alone after T leaves? Part of me is nervous, yes. Things can go wrong, but I have done it before, I believe in myself, and we have roadside assistance. Spain’s infrastructure is good. I need to stay positive.

After T goes back to the US, what will you be doing in the pockets of free time when the kids are playing or sleeping? Reading and blogging. I am bringing my laptop with me (I regretted not having it in Denmark).

Do you have a guidebook? No, I mainly use Google maps and word of mouth for places to visit. Example: our host in Armaçao de Pera already gave us many great ideas. We changed the road we will take to get from Lisbon to Algarve coast; instead of A2 highway, we will take to coastal route.

What are you bringing? Carry-ons only. If we forget something, we can go without or it can be bought at a local shop. Each kid has a small piece of luggage they are responsible for and they will have their clothing, snacks for the plane, a few toys, headphones and a tablet.

Do you have any other questions? I’m sure I’ll think of something and will go back and edit this post.


14 responses to “Portugal-Spain Family Road Trip”

  1. Elisabeth Avatar

    My husband was born in Portugal and I STILL HAVE NOT been. I need to get there. It sounds so beautiful and he has been back many times. This sounds like a fabulous trip. Can’t wait to see pictures and live vicariously through your experiences.

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      Daria

      Thank you for the well wishes!!!

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  2. Noemi Avatar

    This sounds amazing! I lived in Madrid for my junior year and traveled all around (and to Portugal) and I love that area so much. I can’t wait to take my kids.

    You’ll be fine with and without your husband. I also always take a longer trip with my kids than my husband can join for. In 2018 we went to a Colombia (kids were 4 and 7). The kids and I did Bogota, then met my husband in Cartagena to hike into a beach park, then he went home and we did Medellin without him. It was great. You’re going to rock this trip I’m sure. And I can’t wait to hear how it all goes!

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      Daria

      Thank you Naomi!!!

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      Daria

      Thank you for words of confirmation!!

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  3. Lisa of Lisa's Yarns Avatar

    It also helps that you are fluent in Spanish. I think knowing the language makes a huge difference. You can more easily navigate cities, ask for directions, ask for help, etc. I bet the kids will do pretty well at Alhambra. I think it’s pretty stroller friendly so if R is open to riding a stroller, that would probably help. I think I remember seeing kids when we visited it in December 2017. You’ve likely already read about this but make sure you book your tickets in advance!

    We haven’t taken our kids out of the country yet. My husband i both traveled quite a bit before we met/got married so we are kind of on a grand pause from big international trips. We don’t have great “go with the flow” type of personalities which is key for traveling with kids!

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      Daria

      Ohhh thank you so much! Will book for 07/15 when we are there !!

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  4. Grateful Kae Avatar

    How exciting! I am not sure I would have been brave enough to do a road trip like that solo with my kids, but all the power to you! I get a bit nervous by the idea of driving in other countries, honestly- even when it’s the same side of the road, I feel like things are different and in some towns/cities I feel like you have to be really good at “maneuvering” type driving, if that makes sense…. like tight parallel parking, backing into little spots in a tiny parking lot somewhere, etc. Haha. Where I live most of my driving involves just parking in a regular parking lot or in a garage, and typical city/ interstate driving. When we travel I feel like sometimes the driving style is just really different from my day to day driving, even though I’m a perfectly competent and comfortable driver.

    How did you choose the places you’ll visit? We were in Spain in 2018 and did Madrid-Sevilla-Barcelona, with a day trip to Cordoba. The mosque/church combo is AMAZING there!! Be prepared for a lot of heat though.

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      Daria

      Oh Kae, driving in other countries can be such a mindfuck. That first time when we are picking up the car and installing the car seats omg so much pressure. In Portugal the streets are naaaaarowwwwww so I feel like I have to be more careful!

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  5. San Avatar

    I am very excited for your trip – even the part that you’ll be doing alone with the kids. I haven’t been to Spain in a long time, but used to visit as a kid.

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      Daria

      Thank you!! I am having mixed feelings about it. But I know even difficulties provide good lessons

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  6. Devin Meireles Avatar
    Devin Meireles

    Looks like some great ground you covered on this trip! I plan on exploring the southern region of Portugal one day too. Cheers

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      Daria

      Oh you will love it! So much to see, and the people are lovely!

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