Snow, snow, snow

Crawling military style through deep snow

The north east got slammed with a major snow storm. And we have no more snow days left! NJ schools were closed on Monday and Tuesday.

That means that if there is one more snow day, the district will start taking days away from our spring break, soooo a possible no to South Carolina. Thankfully, the hotel is refundable but, if that happens, I’ll be bummed.

Happy 45th!

In spite of the storm we celebrated my husband’s 45th birthday. The storm dumped some snow so T had to clean all that snow. He was a champ! We then had an ice cream cake ❤️

NYC

This week I am in New York City for my annual world language teacher conference. This conference is a three day affair (Thursday to Saturday) with tons of workshops taught by fellow educators.

NYC, of course, is lovely and unsettling at the same time – the city of contrasts.

My hotel is a no frills chain in Hell’s Kitchen, which is a change from last three years when I stayed in Korea town. This year I am not doing as much walking. Korean town was a good 15+ blocks every morning. This time the Garden Inn is much closer to the conference site. #badrightknee

My room is on the 32 floor! At first I went to the THIRD floor then had to go back into the elevator and go up to the THIRTY-SECOND floor. I felt like a village girl in a big city!

The city view from my 32 floor room 😵‍💫

Thursday was day 1 of this conference, and it was exhausting. Lots of sitting and listening and taking notes. But also lots of talking with fellow teachers. Lots of socializing. I left home on a 5:56AM train to be in New York by 8AM.

I did NOT feel ready mentally or logistically to go to the NYC Thursday through Saturday. On Thursday morning, at 4:30AM I scrambling with lesson plans for Thursday while my daughter was keeping me company. Usually, I do not feel so pressured but this year, I am feeling overwhelmed.

The feeling of overwhelm augmented itself with each and every workshop I attended. Usually, I go through the notes after each workshop and decide what to do with the strategies that were shared. It is not possible to implement EVERYTHING so I have to pick and choose. This year I just let them PILE up. Now I have to dig through the notes when I come back home.

My overnight bag and a backpack at the train station this morning

After day 1 was over, I checked into the hotel and went to the fitness center for an hour to spin and do some weights. Dinner was a salad in my hotel room, some reading and bed.


Day 2 of the conference is also packed! Workshops, lectures, notes. The theme of the conference is RHYTHM. They started the plenary session with taiko drums performance. You all know how much I love a rhythm of a drum so this was a nice surprise. Then, they had a Spanish teacher do a TAP dance! It was so joyful. To wrap up the plenary session, they had Tahitian dancers perform ‘Ote’a and Aparima dances. LOVE.

Taiko drums

During lunch, I walked up to Cental Park and got some fresh air. The back to professional learning.

After the last workshop tonight, I am seeing an off-broadway play. It’s gonna be a late night since the play is from 7:30 to 10pm. The play is at The Shed next to the Hudson Yards, and Emma D’Arcy is in it.

Decisions

I have received so many wonderful comments on my last reflection where I struggled with decisions. I am yet to respond to comments, and I am yet to make ANY of those decisions. Sigh. I feel like I have NOT been on top of things in regards to reading blogs and writing comments, and am feeling behind. I am dreading this trip to Russia so I am giving myself permission to NOT go this summer. I am also giving myself permission to not feel guilty.

To do

After the conference is over, which is tomorrow afternoon, I need to:

*make a folder and throw ALL the presentations and notes into to share with colleagues in my district

*to go through the conference notes and select applicable strategies

*exercise at the Y

*do laundry

*lesson plans for next week! This is exciting because #NEWstrategies ❤️

*write a blog post “Goodbye February, hello March”

*leave some blog comments on my fellow bloggers’ writings

*spend some quality time with T

*go swimming or skating with the kids

*mayyyyybe purchase plane tickets for Italy

*mayyyybe part 2, book some accommodations in Italy

This is my “final” idea 💡

17 responses to “Friday Five”

  1. K @ TS Avatar

    Happy birthday T; here’s a shovel! Haha! That is a lot of snow! I haven’t lived in a place where I have to shovel snow in over 20 years and I don’t miss it! Although I do miss the green trees and quiet, so maybe I would move back at some point. Your conference sounds tiring, but at least you got to pop out to Central Park! I do love walking around the park, especially in Fall, although I am sure it is nice now too! Good luck getting your list worked on!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Oh Kyria, I am happy to report that I booked that road trip to Italy. And I am not turning back! 🙂

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  2. Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I feel similarly overwhelmed and am having a hard time finding my rhythm now that I am back to work travel. I feel perpetually behind and kind of a sense of ennui. I hope you can find a way to release your guilt about the Russia trip. Guilt is one of the topics I talked about in therapy today because much of what I feel guilty about is not something I can control. But it’s easier said than done.

    Your conference sounds tiring. But I am glad you snuck in a walk to Central Park!! I love getting up there when I am traveling for work.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Central Park was quiet – surprisingly. I need to work on guilt at work, too. I hold myself up to such high standards with lessons and professional involvement and sometimes I feel like the district MAY be taking advantage of me (us). My colleagues feel similarly depleted.

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  3. Nicole MacPherson Avatar

    The conference sounds both really cool and also really exhausting!

    Happy birthday to your husband!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Thank you so much, Nicole!!

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  4. noemikjames Avatar

    You’re at your conference right now, as I type this! I hope it’s going well and that you’re learning all sorts of great things that you can use in your classroom ASAP! It’s awesome that you get to go to that every year. There isn’t anything around here like that for language teachers, at least not that I know about. I’m jealous of such an amazing annual opportunity!

    As for decisions, I also struggle with them. A LOT. Sometimes I end up making a decision just so I can stop obsessing over it. Decision via indecision is also a real thing that I find myself participating in all the time!

    I have also felt totally overwhelmed lately. I am so behind on everything that is just for me, especially blogging and commenting. Today I have to be in Santa Cruz and I found a spot in the shade at a cafe (it’s weirdly VERY WARM here today!) and I’m hoping to cross a lot of things off my required and personal to-do lists.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Noemi, if you give me your contact info- I will share the folder of stuff I accumulated :))

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  5. Sophie Avatar

    What language do you teach, Daria? I’m assuming Russian but not sure? Great they have a conference focused on that speciality, and that music session sounded great! But I get how tiring it is, conferences are so draining, I often skip a few sessions to rest and be a tourist, otherwise by the end of the conference my brain stops working! And hard to be social and do small talk for so many days too, even though I’m fairly extraverted. Those are some hard decisions you discussed in your previous post, hope it all becomes clear soon. That Italy trip does sound amazing, I’ve visited Italy three times before and loved it, but haven’t been in a while (we are not as brave to travel so much with kids as you, so we’ve stayed closer to home). I hope you don’t need any more snow days so you can still take Spring Break, fingers crossed my friend!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Sophie! I teach Spanish hehe although, yes, I am Russian. The Italy trip has been booked and I am not looking back! I did not skip ANY workshops and I was so fried at the end. Wanted to get my employer’s money worth but not a good decision.

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      1. Sophie Avatar

        Wow – fluent Russian and Spanish, as well as English – you are a woman of many talents 🙂

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      2. Daria Avatar

        Haha – yes 🙂

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  6. Ernie @ nosmallfeetblog.com Avatar

    I cannot imagine working full time as a mom to little children – and add travel into the mix? I salute you. I like the sound of your hotel workout and a salad – then reading in bed. NYC overwhelms me. I was there to see Lad play water polo years ago, and I brought Tank and Reg. They were like 13 and 8 maybe. It was fun but slightly stressful. I parked the rental car somewhere when we were racing for the train and when we got back we struggled to find the car. Eek.

    I hope your spring break plans are not messed up. After all that snow, you need a spring break. I’m glad you’ve opted out of the Russia visit. I think that was the right call. Fingers crossed that your Italy plans work out.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Hi Ernie!! So nice to hear from you. Yes, NYC can be A LOT! I can only take it in small doses (if possible).

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  7. Stephany Avatar

    What a busy few days you have had! I was thinking of you when I heard about the snowstorms in NJ! That’s so much snow, eeks.

    I’m sure deciding to not go to Russia was a very hard decision, but I’m proud of you for making that decision! I hope you are able to let go of the guilt. ❤

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Friend, you JUST made an episode that I NEEDED – so thank you! Just listened to it today and it was validating.

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