Re-entry has been rough.

My daughter goes “mom, your body thinks it’s still in Russia, right?” Me: “CORRECT.”

My jet lag is slowly improving. When I first arrived, I was up at 1AM, then 3AM, then 4, and now I’m up at 5AM (with my alarm) and, for some reason, a head ache. I think it’s my body’s desire for caffeine. If my body doesn’t get it by a certain time, it develops a headache. Why can’t I be like that about exercise?

There are people at the house, “working” on our kitchen. At the moment, working on it means destroying the old kitchen and carrying the debris to the dumpster outside. I wonder if I can sneak in stuff from the garage?…

The living room and the den are still stuffed but I took some time to rearrange the items so now, at least in my mind, the mess is an “organized” mess. We use the outside grill to cook meat, a crock pot to boil pasta, and we have a microwave and an electric kettle that usually lives at work. We have a bin where dirty dishes go that we bring upstairs and wash dishes in one of the bathrooms.


Thoughts on Russia trip. Now that I have had some time to separate myself from the Russia trip, I’m ready to share some thoughts with you.

  1. I’m happy I only brought the carryon. Making a journey with a regular suitcase would have been much harder: checking it in, waiting in line, picking it up, waiting in line. Most importantly I would never have been able to take public transport in Istanbul. Also, in Russia, my apartment was on the third floor, in a building with no elevator. Just having my carryon and my backpack made travel so much easier.
  2. I was impressed how much my city in Russia has changed. For the better (not talking about Russia’s foreign policy). Last time I have been to my city was in 2007 and it was your typical rundown, dangerous, dirty, middle of the road city. When I saw it just two weeks ago, it was a modern city, with a much improved infrastructure. New buses, trolleybuses, and trams. Tons of new apartment and office buildings. Tons of historic buildings that were restored or are in process of being restored. Theaters and movie theaters. Shops everywhere. People: families in the parks, moms with strollers, business men, foreign students, local students, older folk taking walks in the evening. Heck – many WOMEN driving! ATMs!
  3. I am happy I made the trip. It was arduous, and expensive, and inconvenient, and scary, and, and, and… It threw a wrench into my summer plans a little since had to cancel my camping trip with the kids. My biggest fear was the war that Russia is currently involved in. But many of my fears did not materialize. There was no martial law in the country, you could use foreign currency freely, there were no questions for me at the Russian customs and immigration. Most importantly, I saw my dad. And mom.
  4. The trip cost. The trip was expensive because it was a. in the summer, and b. kind of last minute. Overall, Russia is NOT expensive, especially if one is outside of Moscow or St. Petersburg. Here are the numbers for the entire two-week trip: flights: $2,500 (Turkish Airlines and Aeroflot), apartment $300(!), car rental $700, spending money $800 (a chair that is a toilet, a walker, diapers, medicines, etc), activities, groceries, cafes, gas for car, and items for the kids). I also left some money for them to use in an emergency.

Pic: our living room that is now the kitchen and the dining room.


9 responses to “Re-entry and Russia trip post-mortem”

  1. Sophie Avatar

    I’m glad the trip and travel back all went well, even though it was very challenging, and jet lag has been tough. Jet lag is like that for me every time I travel back from Europe or US, so I can commiserate. Nothing worse than being wide awake at 1am!
    Glad to hear your Russia hometown is so much nicer now!
    and good luck with your renovation, absolute chaos but will be worth it I’m sure. When is it scheduled to be complete?

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Thank you Sophie! So much nicer- I was pleasantly surprised.

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  2. Michelle G. Avatar

    Daria, I’m glad your trip worked out so well and that you didn’t run into any troubles. The pictures you shared of your home town looked beautiful. Your kitchen renovations sound exciting! Even though it’s a pain, it’ll be worth it.

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  3. Nicole MacPherson Avatar

    I’m so glad everything worked out for the best – and that you are safe and sound! Now let’s hope for that jet lag to go away.

    I’m 100000% carryon only these days – it’s just so much easier!

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  4. Sak Avatar
    Sak

    I’m glad your trip worked out well. I enjoyed seeing the pictures of your home town.

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  5. Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I am glad your trip went smoothly. Jet lag is so tough and you’ll be facing it again fairly soon I think! I hope you acclimate. The headaches sound rough. I have been getting lots of headaches lately, I think related to my cycle.

    It’s great that the conditions in your city have improved. What a world we live in right now with martial law, wars, etc. sigh.

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  6. Maya Avatar

    You made things easier for your parents, but things are tougher for you back home because of renovations… there’s some irony in that!

    I hope your reno goes smoothly and you’re able to continue to hold it together.

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  7. Stephany Avatar

    I am so glad you are home safe, but sorry for all of the jet lag woes. That sounds difficult!

    It was also really interesting getting glimpse of what Russia is like right now; we don’t hear much about the day-to-day life of Russians, just what is in the news. Thank you for sharing your hometown with us!

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  8. Tobia | craftaliciousme Avatar

    I am glad you were able to see your dad. And family. Even though it was inconvenient, expensive and strenuous. Sometimes you just gotta do it. And imagine you weren’t able to finally or physically pull it off.

    Hope your kitchen renovation is coming to an end quickly. It’s probably a whole other area of stress.

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