First and foremost, I made it! And I could hug dad. And below is a picture to prove it.

Yesterday, my journey from Istanbul was fine. But it was very, VERY, long. I took a 7:30AM flight to Moscow, that was about 5 hours.

In Moscow Sheremetyevo airport, everything took a long time. Passport control. Customs. I had to find a place with a good rate to exchange dollars into rubles. Some places, offered 69 rubles for 1 dollar, but Sberbank (pretty much the biggest Russian bank) came through with 74 rubles for 1 dollar. Heck, when you are exchanging a significant amount of money that is a big difference. Since neither Visa nor Mastercard work in Russia, and for me to pay for a. car rental and b. apartment, I had to bring cash.

The flight to Chelyabinsk was a little delayed (40 minutes) so I had a glass of wine with some… watermelon? That’s how it was served to me.

By the time I boarded the plane to Chelyabinsk, I was tired. Landed at around 6:30PM. Went to the rental agency at the airport, and the place was all closed up! They told me they will be open and hold a car for me. An agent came in about 20 minutes, took my information, issued me the car, I paid him (in cash!), signed the contract (aka a receipt), and started driving.

I have never driven in Russia since I received my drivers’ license in the US. Last night I lucked out because it was kind of late, the road from the airport was empty and it was still light out. Thirty minutes later I was at the apartment building. Had a hard time finding the actual apartment but the agent waited for me. A nice person opened the door, showed me how to work the shower, and the stove, and where all the light switches are. I then paid her (in cash!) and signed the contract (receipt).

My apartment here is technically a studio with a separate kitchen and bathroom. It’s more than enough space for me. Most importantly, it has a kettle, a microwave, and a washing machine since I did not bring a lot of clothes with me.

The living/sleeping area. My laundry is hanging on the balcony.
Kitchen

This morning, I just could NOT wake up. Chelyabinsk is 9 hours ahead of NYC. I am definitely feeling the time change and the jet lag.

I stopped by a cafe to get some coffee and a pastry. The way apartment buildings are constructed here, is that on top, you have apartments, and on the bottom floor there are little shops. In my building, there is a fruit and vegetable shop, a hair dresser, a wine store, a bakery/cafe, and a tool shop. I’ll be frequenting that bakery for sure.

I then drove to my parents’ place. Mom was happy to see me, she was very touched. I was on my best behavior- smile and nod. She actually waited for me outside so when I pulled in I saw her right away. I brought the window down and said “hey madam, did you order a taxi?” and then she recognized me. lol

We went up and I saw dad, sitting and having some tea. His condition is still difficult. He needs a lot of help with the most basic needs, and we are looking at rehab centers to have him work with a physical therapist. I think he is in line for one in the area. I can see that he is also sad, depressed even, about what happened to him. And rightfully so. At some point he stated “I didn’t think this would happen to me.”

My plan is to visit him every day, spend time there, help with exercises for his left hand, make tea, do grocery runs, whatever is needed.


Thank you everyone for your kind comments and for following along with this journey.


12 responses to “Hugging Dad”

  1. Michelle G. Avatar

    Daria, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your journey! I’m so glad to know that you arrived safely.

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  2. Nicole MacPherson Avatar

    Wow, what a long travel day. I’m glad you made it there safely and may your dad’s healing be a smooth path. xo

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  3. Natka Avatar
    Natka

    So glad to hear you arrived safely! The photo of you hugging your dad – love it. I am so sorry he is going through this. I can only imagine how hard this is for him and for you. We always wish we could fix all the problems for our loved ones .. and we can’t… But we can be there for them. Which is exactly what you are doing.

    Family is family. No matter how crazy and complicated things are. Having your own space to go to, where you can relax and be by yourself, is wise. Your apartment looks very cozy!

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Natasha, thank you for the well wishes. Family is family, that is so true.

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  4. Maya Avatar

    You made it! Lovely photo of you and your dad and a sweet moment with your mom (taxi? lol).

    I can understand your dad’s feelings… He’s used to being strong, and not having that must really mess with his sense of who he is. I’m so glad you are able to be there ❤

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  5. Sak Avatar
    Sak

    I’m glad that you arrived without any serious issues and all of your travel planning panned out. I’m glad you get to see your dad and be with him. I hope things keep going smoothly for you.

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  6. Kari Avatar

    I’m so glad you made it safely, and it sounds like your parents are so glad you’re there too. I loved seeing the picture of you and your dad. Give him a hug from me—even though he doesn’t know me. I sure miss my dad hugs. Sending you love.

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    1. Daria Avatar

      Thank you so much, friend!

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  7. Elisabeth Avatar

    I’m so glad you made it safely. Thinking of you! XoXo

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  8. Lisa’s Yarns Avatar

    I am glad your travels were smooth overall. That is a long journey so you don’t need to make that trip any harder than it already is! I bet it felt good to hug your dad. I hope you can arrange the care he needs!

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  9. Melissa Avatar

    I’m so glad you arrived safely and you have had a smooth reunion.

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  10. Tina Avatar

    I’m glad you were able to make it to see your dad and get a nice hug in. What a seriously long flight, whew!

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