Below is a post I wrote yesterday. Pretty much laying out why Monday was not a good day for me. I was going to edit it this morning but decided to leave it.

T was out of the door by 4am to catch one of his four flights to get to Arkansas. I woke up with him then could not fall back asleep. I fell asleep what seemed like right before the alarm.

I dropped L off at the neighbor’s house. Dropped R off at preschool. Got into a fender bender. The other car didn’t do the stop sign and got me on my side. Was late for work. Block D was loud. Had to teach five 56 minute classes. Then I had a faculty meeting after work, 3 to 4pm.

Went straight to R’s preschool. Avoided the turn where the accident this morning happened. Picked R up at around 4:30, went to L’s school to pick her up. R and L played on the aftercare playground for about 15 minutes, went home.

Dinner was leftover Chinese food, rice and beans for R. Some broccoli and cucumbers. Shared a small ice cream. L played piano, R did his transformers.

No TV, they didn’t even ask. Instead I cleaned up after dinner, started the dishwasher, wiped counters. At 6:30 they were both showered, with teeth brushed. They were both wild, jumping on my bed and playing the “naked game” with the premise being: get naked and jump on mommy’s bed. God help me.

Then: one chapter for L of Ivy and Bean chapter book, half of the Russian alphabet book for R. Songs, hugs, kisses, and lights out.

I am spent.


I wrote the post above after a very long day so it’s dramatic. I am feeling more grounded this morning since I’ve had a night of sleep. Today is a much easier day- only three classes with many pockets of open planning time.


15 responses to “Today sucked”

  1. Elisabeth Avatar

    That sounds like an epically hard day – from waking up so early, to being a solo parent, to getting in a FENDER BENDER (adrenaline just goes through the roof), and then having to rush to work which is such a high-intensity environment.

    I want to give yesterday’s Daria a huge hug and make her a cup of tea and send her in to take a long hot shower.

    That is a very sucky day. I’m glad today is better and that your body can bounce back from so many stress hormones.

    Onward and upward ❤

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  2. Michelle G. Avatar
    Michelle G.

    A fender bender will ruin any day. Ugh. I hope the rest of your week is much better. ❤️

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  3. Diane Avatar
    Diane

    Daria, that sounds so incredibly stressful! I hope everything with the car gets settled smoothly.

    That naked game sounds hilarious. I’m so glad your kids play that because my two younger kids play something like that too, only the jump on their own beds, and I always thought it was funny, but maybe weird. Good to hear mine are not the only ones. Or maybe we all have quirky kids?

    Hope the rest of the week only goes up for you.

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  4. J Avatar

    Days like that must be endured. I’m glad you came through it, and that today is better. Being late for work when you teach must be extra stressful, does someone else go in and cover the beginning of your class? I’m sorry you were in an accident, but glad it wasn’t a large one. My step-mom was in an accident like that where the other person didn’t stop, and she was fine, but it totaled her car. Very stressful.

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  5. Melissa Avatar

    OK, that is awful! And especially hard with T away. Sending hugs to you and hoping today is better.

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  6. Coco Avatar

    Solo parenting is hard especially when kids are at younger age like yours! Yet, a good night of sleep could be magical! Hope you are having a better day today. We all have those days and the good thing is knowing that it’s just one bad day and it can only get better.

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  7. Sarah Avatar

    Ugh fender bender. I am so sorry. Solo parenting is never easy with little kids, and a car accident is a particularly rude addition to the day.

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  8. Maya Avatar

    That’s a long day for solo parenting with FIVE classes and a fender bender… You have every right to complain!

    “The naked game” sounds hilarious though 🙂

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  9. Tina Avatar

    Days like this really take a lot out of you and set the tone for the rest of the week it seems. Hopefully it will even out and the rest of your week will be more calm. Kids come up with the funniest things sometimes.

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  10. Sophie Avatar

    Oh what a day Daria! Sorry it had to be so tiring and intense. Fender bender just before a crazy work day is no fun, plus solo parenting and little sleep. Glad you got good sleep the next night! My kids do a version of the naked game too- must be a universal thing!

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  12. Stephany Avatar

    That sounds like a very busy, very hard day AND included a fender bender before school? Not ideal at all. Hugs, my friend. You got through this day and I hope things are looking up. ❤

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  13. Irena Avatar
    Irena

    Dear Daria, sorry about your difficult day. It reminded me of the period of my life when my youngest baby started daycare at the age of 8 months. We would bring him home, he would eat dinner and crush to sleep at 7 pm …just to wake up at 4.30 am Every Single Morning. God, it was tough!!! My husband travelled extensively, and I was full time in the office 8-5 pm. I think I was marginally depressed for a long time, but I kept powering through. The few tips (even though not ideal) to get through the days, when you don’t have your natural energy (from sleep and rest), was to create some energy from snacks and sweets. I remember I had a drawer in my office labeled “for tough days”, where I would keep some Lara bars, cookies, and Chex mix with the peanuts and M&Ms. This is the stuff that I don’t eat regularly, but it can give me energy, if needed, to power through a few hours. You got this! Sending hugs!

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  14. rachelinwales Avatar

    Oh that sounds like a stressful and sad day! WIth no margin for error. I really dislike the naked game. The kids play it here. I hate how the time when I need to do the most intensive parenting (BEDTIME!) is the time when I have *least* energy to give it. Our kids play a similar game and recently I mostly tap out and ask Andy to do bedtime because I am DONE. I am amazed at your stamina. I hope things get better.

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  15. Tobia | craftaliciousme Avatar

    Arghhhh this day sounds rough. Glad a good nights sleep could take out about of the drama. I had to chuckle out the naked game though. I totally understand the annoyance but from a kids perspective it’s probably so much fun.

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