I have to put this out there just to set it free.

My family lives in Russia (the Southern Urals). Dad voiced that he is not able to get a visa to the US or Europe but he is open to meeting in one of the countries who have a visa-free entry for Russian citizens. The attractive countries are (in terms of culture, safety, and ease of access for him and for us: zero. However, here are some viable options:

  1. Turkey. Not the best choice for Russian citizens safety-wise (recent news). Time in transit for dad: about 7 hours. For us, coming from the US: about 10 hours. Cost: average. Our interest in visiting: low.
  2. UAE, Dubai. A good choice for Russian citizens safety-wise. Time in transit for dad: about 10 hours. For us, coming from the US: about 18 hours. Cost: expensive! Our interest in visiting: high!
  3. Cuba: A great choice for Russian citizens! Time in transit for dad: about 20 hours. For us, coming from the US: about 10 hours. Cost: average. Our interest in visiting: high! Complexity for us as US citizens: also high 😦
  4. Thailand. A good choice for Russian citizens, visa free entry. Time in transit for dad to Bangkok- 10 hours. For us, coming from the US: about 22 hours (!!). Cost: average. Our interest in visiting: very high! Complexity for us as US citizens: easy!
  5. Do nothing and meet next year. This option just makes me sad.

Whew, here you have it. I’m really struggling with wanting to see dad, and bring the kids so they can see him, too. I am not willing to travel to Russia with the kids right now for two reasons: 1. the war; 2. visa to Russia process.

Dad with L in 2018, last time we saw him. He has not met R yet.

14 responses to “Russia struggles”

  1. Coco Avatar

    this is very frustrating. Thailand would be more fun than Dubai I think given its diverse culture, food, sites. I hope you get to see your dad one way or the other.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Thank you so much, Coco. I miss him

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  2. melissagstebbins Avatar
    melissagstebbins

    how disappointing that it is going to be so difficult to reconnect with yuor family. I hope you can find a solution that will work for you all.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Thank you for stopping by, Melissa!

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  4. Lisa of Lisa's Yarns Avatar

    Oh this is so sad to think about. The cost and complexity just make it so tough. My heart goes out to you all! I am sure your dad is desperate to see all of you as well! I hope you come up with a solution that makes sense for all of you and is feasible from a cost/complexity standpoint!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Your words warm my heart, Lisa, thank you so much.

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  5. NGS Avatar

    Oh, I’m so sorry. War is terrible and its impacts are global and far-reaching. I’m sorry it’s having such personal consequences for you and your family.

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Thank you so much!

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  6. Maya Avatar

    I empathize so much with your situation here, Daria! The political fallout and impact on diaspora family life is so intense. All your options look complicated, but I’m glad possibilities exist and I hope you get to see your dad this year. Do your kids interact with your Russian family on video calls and so on on the regular?

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Thank you Maya! I am leaning towards seeing him next year- it’s too much, to soon, too rushed. And yes, we chat all the time 🙂

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  7. Stephany Avatar

    Gosh, this is so complicated. I am really sorry that seeing your dad means so much travel complexity like this, especially since he can’t come to you. 😦 I hope you can find a way to see him soon!

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    1. Daria Avatar
      Daria

      Thank you, Stephany xo

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  8. San Avatar

    I am so sorry. It’s hard that seeing your family has become such an issue with the war and all. It’s hard enough to be so far from family, but not being able to travel and easily see them is the worst. I do hope you find a solution and can see your Dad soon.

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